Thanks to my friend, Tanya, for that name. Its a badass way to describe what I’m about to talk about.
Here’s the thing:
It took me a long to come to terms with who I am: as a person, as a writer, as a daughter, as a sister, as a friend, as a girlfriend, as a complete nerd and as a bisexual. All of those things were hard.
And its going to sound crazy, but that hardest one was embracing the nerd in me.